Question - How Would You Describe Your Perfect Wife?

Editorial: This article was originally published on my Blog on HusbandHelpHaven.com

Hopefully being reminded of what your perfect wife looks like will give you the driving motivation needed to become master of your marriage and finally turn things around.

I won’t lie to you, it’s going to be hard journey, but knowing what your reward is at the end will make things seem a lot easier and much more rewarding. Sacrifice isn’t sacrifice when you know there’s a reward.

So what does the perfect wife look like?

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Here are 9 qualities describing the wife that you COULD have, but that only 1% – 2% of husbands DO have:

#1. She Loves and Adores You

She thinks of you as the sun, the absolute center of her universe. She loves you with all of her being and she doesn’t ever have thoughts of greener pastures. She knows that you’re a ‘catch’ and she will appreciate everything you do for her.

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#2. She Fantasizes About You

She can’t get you out of her head. When she looks at your she can’t help but feel a tingle; she feels an almost magnetic pull to be with you, and it definitely shows in the bedroom. She can’t get enough of you, she wants you SO badly that sometimes she just *HAS* to have you.

#3. She Recharges You, Not Drains You

Being around your wife feels natural, comforting and fun. You look forward to seeing her at the end of a long day, and you know that when everything else looks bleak, your wife is there to make things better. She is comfortable knowing that she’s the foundation that gives you strength, and she revels in your joy.

#4. She is the Envy of Your Friends

Your friends wonder what you’re doing to have such a happy marriage and perfect wife. They don’t understand how your wife is SO good to you…And honestly, your friends’ wives are probably a bit miffed, too. They don’t understand how a woman could be so happy in a man, but they know that’s what they want, too.

#5. She is a Rock Solid Foundation

She pushes you to greater and greater things. She knows your dreams and views them as her own. When you are happy, she is happy, and when you are sad, she is sad. When nothing else in the world makes sense (We all have those days), she is there for you, crystal clear. Your marriage is unquestioning…You don’t have to worry about losing her, or that she’ll find someone else. You know that she’s utterly happy with you, and so you can rest easy and enjoy her fully.

#6. She Regards You as Man of the House

You will ‘wear the pants’ and she will respect you for it. I’m not telling you to be a chauvinist, and I certainly hope I don’t come off that way, but when things go right it’s natural for the man to take the head of the house. She respects that, and helps you to be the man you were meant to be.

#7. She Shows Affection Towards You

Whether it’s little kisses, warm hugs, soft cuddles or super-charged sex, she always wants to show you how much she loves you. Remember, she’s happy when you’re happy, and she will show you physically that she wants you to be happy. It will feel natural for her to be all over you, and your marriage will be better for it. You’ll finally have that ‘spark’ back.

#8. She Has Rational Arguments With You

Let’s be honest, there is no such thing as a truly perfect marriage where neither person ever has beef with the other. Fights and arguments are as much a part of relationships as love and affection. However, in your ‘new’ marriage your wife doesn’t explode, doesn’t shut down, isn’t irrational, and actually listens to what you have to say. Even when you fight, you’re not really fighting because at the end you’re reminded how much in love you really are.

#9. She is Joyful and Passionate

The spark that no longer exists in your relationship will be reignited once again. Instead of feeling lost, hopeless and lonely, both you and your wife will live every day in joy, passionately thankful that you’ve each been given such a wonderful spouse. Happiness will come naturally, and your marriage will thrive under a new reign of passionate love.

Now tell me, what are you feeling right now? Do you see what you could have? Do you want that kind of marriage? Can You Describe Your Perfect Wife?

You don’t have to settle for anything less…You can take control of your marriage and become the kind of husband that has the perfect wife.

Either way, thanks for reading!

Kindly,
 - Jacob Elichmann @ Husband Help Haven