25 Ways You Can Make Your Wife Feel Loved

Love always wins, but it has to show up to the fight, first.

There is something in this list for everyone… Whether you’re one of the few husbands with a completely happy marriage already or one of the ones who still has a ways to go, hopefully one (or more) of these 25 tips on how to tell your wife you love her will help you to draw your wife closer and show her the depth of your love.

So, without any further adieu, here’s how to tell your wife you love her.

25 Ways to Show Your Wife You Love Her

#1. Do her a favor by carrying out a chore or other task you know she wants you to do without making her ask you to do it. When you serve her sometimes, it makes her feel much more appreciated.

#2. Don’t be afraid to get ‘girly’; leave little surprise notes for her every now and then just to randomly remind her how much you love her. Make sure you say ‘I love you’ every single day of your long-term relationship with your wife.

#3. Save money in your budget every month to spend spontaneously on your wife; it should be just as much of a requirement as taxes, utilities or the TV bill

#4. If she’s a stay at home mom, always make sure to give her plenty of time to get out of the house, even if it’s inconvenient for you

#5. Every now and then, praise her intelligence. Let her know you view her as an equal (if not greater) mind; don’t be afraid to learn from your wife

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#6. If you want a wife who gives you sexual favors (c’mon, you know what I mean), then you should be a husband who does sexual and other favors, like a massage, back rub, or leg scratch. Caress her gently and show her tenderness that doesn’t always HAVE to lead to sex.

#7. Take her out of the house; wine and dine her every once and a while. Give yourselves the opportunity to talk extensively with each other, without the kids around.

#8. Let her know that you need her in your life (not recommended if your marriage is on the rocks, be careful not to sound like a beggar) and that you treasure her as your prime source of happiness. When she hears you say it, the idea is firmly ingrained in her mind. She will hold onto it, and it will give her support to be a better wife for you!

#9. Try to avoid complaining as much as you can…This doesn’t mean avoiding real problems, but it does mean being positive about small favors for her, like going to the store or picking up the kids

#10. Remember important dates - like an anniversary, Valentine’s day her birthday or Christmas – by any means necessary.

#11. Remember that your relationship with your wife is EQUALLY IMPORTANT to your relationship with your kids, don’t put your marriage on the back burner just because you’re a parent.

#12. Many times when you’re trying to figure out how to make your wife feel special, the greatest enemy is yourself…Take time every day coming home from work to consciously let go of the stress of your day.

This is good practice not just to be more pleasant around your wife, but you’ll generally find yourself less stressed and more relaxed at home as a result of this tip

#13. Ask her honestly what makes her scared, what her fears are, and what she thinks is the root of those fears (you’ll learn a lot). Make sure you remain totally un-judgemental throughout this open communication.

#14. Send her a text or call her sometime during work; there’s no such thing as too much telling your wife you love her

#15. Don’t always expect sex…Let her work her magic on you free of the expectation and you’ll be amazed what she’ll do all on her own

#16. Do you have kids? Let her know the night before that you’ll be the one to wake up and make sure they’re ready for school and stuff, that way she can sleep in every once in a while

#17. Along a similar note, make sure you discipline your children when they’re disrespectful to both you AND your wife

#18. Work out! Your wife loves you no matter what you look like, but you can really make her crave you if you’ll put a bit of work into staying in shape. Plus, it will make you manly-er…If you really want to know how to be romantic to your wife, this should definitely be a priority!

#19. Always, ALWAYS tread lightly when you’re around your wife and another woman…Do not ever give her any reason to ask you your intentions. 45% of men are said to cheat on their wives; don’t be one of them!

#20. Spend some time reflecting on what your relationship with your wife was like when he first started dating… Think about what you’re either consciously or subconsciously doing differently now as it compares to your previous self. Are you making your wife more attracted to you, or less?

#21. A lot of loving your wife comes down to adapting in attitude of pro-activity. In other words, do things spontaneously, impulsively, and without being asked. Love her impulsively, give her a gift spontaneously, and run errands without being asked…See a common trend? Women love knowing that they’re on your mind ALL the time. Hing: This leads to a less nagging wife!

#22. Most couples stop cuddling with each other when they’re watching TV after they’re married…Don’t be afraid to get cozy under the blankets and show physical affection the way you used to do when you were watching a movie or TV

#23. Take special care of her when she’s sick; pretty easy, but many men stop doing this after awhile…You’ll always make her feel so much better!

#24. Having company over is often much more stressful for the wife then it is for the husband; be conscious of this, and do your best to be extra helpful and supportive when you’re going to be having people over

#25. !!!Most Important!!! T Do NOT expect anything in return for your affections; If you do then you’re making it about you, not your wife or her happiness. You’ll be amazed what can happen in a marriage where you selflessly love your wife

And there you have it, 25 different ways for you to Show Your Wife You Love Her. Each of these tips will make a difference in the way your wife feels about you.

Try incorporating even one or two of these into your marriage, and I think that you will be amazed with the results. You can have a happy and healthy relationship with your wife… It doesn’t have to be hard, elusive, or take years of work to get to. You don’t need a marriage counselor, you don’t need therapy, and you certainly don’t need separation or, worse yet, divorce.

You can and will have a happy marriage with your wife, I just know it!

Of course, no matter what you decide to do from here, I wish you the best of luck learning how to show your wife you love her.

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Thanks for reading.

Kindly,
- Jacob Elichmann